Quote: Originally posted by Discipline  | That, and a large percentage of the regulars are in our late 30's-early 40's. At that point a lot of people become busier with families, work, etc.
The internet becomes a bit less important. I have no life, so I still lurk. | This is a bit of a long post
that sort of rambles around several different topics, but to begin with, Your "I have no life" statement unfortunately/fortunately(?) describes me as
well. No wife, no kids, no family....yep. No life. Some great friends (whom 9 out of 10 have either already been divorced once or twice and/or are on
their second or third marriage or have divorced once and that fucked them up to the point that they have remained single ever since or, for the 1 of
10 that are STILL actually married? They seem so miserable it's unreal. That 10% tell me "we're staying together for the kids"...which sounds noble
and all, but? Are you doing MORE damage by staying together while hating one another than you would be if you simply divorced?).....Damn, I'm glad I
never did marry. I was in an 8 yr. relationship. Beautiful girl. Great figure. I looked her up on Facebook a few years ago and she's HUGE. NO, that
did NOT make me feel good AT ALL to see her in such a way (we just grew apart, I have no ill will towards her at all. I was her first
everything....from kiss to virginity and she was [usually] GREAT to me, I was just an idiot often times and took advantage of that fact).
She married a guy that just being purely honest is NOT a very great looking guy but he DID come from a family flush with $$$. I don't know if she just
got "comfortable" in the marriage or if it was in her genes to, at a certain age, "fill out" (EXTREMELY).
I felt SO SORRY for her.
But I can't lie. I'm SO HAPPY that I did not marry her or the other girl that I came very close to marrying. Both would have been mistakes.
Most of my friends also have children and they tell me that I'm missing out big time via the fact that I do not have any children of my own. I "get"
what they are saying, but at 39 years of age? I'm happy to be child free.
Maybe there will come a day when I will "have a life" and either be married or have children and all that good jazz. But I'm okay "having no life" for
now. Maybe I'm just a selfish SOB, but I LOVE the fact that *I* am the only person that I am responsible for right now.
It's weird the way diff. msg. boards are. I know of some that, as the regular posters have aged? They post MORE (and are MORE "cranky" as well). It's
sort of like an "escape" from their real lives or something to that effect. Whereas, with other forums? Once the regulars aged into their early to
late 40's? Those forums became virtual ghost towns (I guess this forum would fit that profile for the most part).
I got home internet access in July of 1998 (I'm sure many had home internet access prior to that). But I have been online ever since. At some point,
during my first year of being online, I discovered Usenet and various Newsgroups and posted often to those. Then, EZ Board became the big thing. Then
PhpBB, etc. Of course, in-between all of that was the once KING "MySpace" (full disclosure? I LOVED MySpace....I will NEVER like Facebook the way I
once did MySpace). In the final years of MySpace's dominance, there came a little site called Youtube. And then? The dreaded FB. (even the comment
sections of MANY websites these days force you to post from a FB account...FB has REALLY "centralized" the internet). Google Blogs began blocking SO
MANY great blogs (I remember back around 2007/2008? If you wanted an album and absolutely COULD NOT find it ANYWHERE? You could turn to the Google
Blog search and almost like clockwork? You'd find it. It was amazing (while it lasted). I'm talking incredibly RARE and OOP albums (for example, the
old punk band The Depressions, who, after a stabbing death at one of their shows changed their name to the DP's for their second album. I could not
find it ANYWHERE and I was a HUGE Depressions fan.....until good ole Google Blog search! BOOM. There it was! Much more poppy, but what the hell? I
love it nonetheless).
Okay, I have went WAY the hell off topic here (this is a post that finds myself being very nostalgic, longing for the days of old....every bit as much
as it finds me being thankful that I can still be an immature jackass If I WANT to be because I have no one to bitch at me or whine about it if I
am).....
I not only miss the days when the Thorp Board was more inundated with posts/topics/etc.....but I miss the days of the internet of old altogether. The
internet has REALLY changed IMO since the advent of Facebook becoming so huge. IMO, it has NOT been a change for the better either. But that is simply
MY opinion. |